Friday, May 18, 2007

Faith and Religion


A friend of mine said something wise to me, he said, “people don’t go to church because of church people.” now that’s hitting the nail on the head, it should be on a t-shirt or something. People don’t go to church because of other people, not so much because of the clergy but because of the people sitting in the pews. You know why God takes care of drunks and fools? I used to go to this all night diner to drink coffee with some friends, it was our hangout spot. The waitresses there that had the most seniority got to pick their own schedules, they always picked Friday and Saturday nights when the bars let out and shied away from the Sunday and Wednesday church crowds. A drunk would chose from the buffet, drink a cup of coffee and leave a big tip. The church crowd would ask for a lot of extra everything, order a single hamburger for three kids have you cut it up and then deliver it to the three different tables where they were sitting , leave a huge mess and a .37 cent tip from ten people
I was Baptized when I was thirteen years old in the Methodist Church. I was raised Baptist at home but we did not attend church as a kid. I wasn’t sure about getting Baptized because I wasn’t sure what it meant. I talked with some friends at church, our youth minister, and even some of the Elders. I wanted to make sure I was doing it for the right reason. Looking back, that was pretty wise for a thirteen year old boy. A few years later I started going to an Assembly of God Church with my older brother, I liked it quite a bit though I never could get used to people speaking in Tongues. My bother told me to keep an open mind and just do what my heart told me to do. So I let people do what they wanted to and I remained silent. Eventually for one reason or the other I stopped going to church. Looking back it was always because of the people I stopped going (I know that’s a poor excuse) I used to worry about what people thought too much. Through the years I would always pray, not everyday but occasionally. I was always a little apprehensive about giving myself completely to God, I thought I would miss out on the fun stuff or that I would fail and not be worthy of Heaven. I’ve made my fair share of mistakes and then some. I’ve done a lot of things that I’m not proud of. I’ve sinned with the best of them and still do (I’m working on that) Almost two years ago I finally got the nerve to give myself to God. I still don’t go to church, I have the Don Williams outlook on that, “I don’t believe that Heaven waits, for only those who congregate” I speak of the Lord and share with other as much as possible, I try and teach my daughter. I’ve put it all in Gods hand’s and he has done a remarkable job in taking care of me. I’ve gotten through every obstacle in my life and I know that I will continue to do so. All I have to do is my best. Be honest, be helpful, be forgiving, say my prayers, and just do the right thing. I work on my short comings and try and include God in all of my decisions. It’s really pretty easy and I wish that I would have figured this out long ago. I miss out on nothing and the reward is grand. I’m no Holy Roller, I am who I am, and as long as God knows what’s in my heart nothing else matters. He will see to it that I get what I need, maybe not what I want but always what’s really important and I’ll always get by, and the day when I don’t, it’s ok because I’ll be in Heaven and it can’t get better than that. BTW, J.E. Cook is my friend and Brother and a Christian too. I hope he finds happiness along his path. Peace.

11 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

This is a really good post. I am on the exact same page and went through the exact same thought process. But now, I am on the path to a personal relationship with the man upstairs. You said, "I thought I would miss out on the fun stuff or that I would fail and not be worthy of Heaven," I had thought the same thing. I love that you are able to see all this and if you looked back even a few months ago, you struggled so. But He did not leave you hung out to dry and it must have been a complete test of faith. It's cool when we begin to see this and instead of saying "why me" we accept and look for the answer or what we are to learn. You can spout and memorize scripture but that won't get you in to heaven. Nope, you must have a charitable heart. I believe you have that, Darlin'!

May 19, 2007 7:27 AM  
Blogger Xmichra said...

Well, as the non-godly woman I am.. i still applaud you for your choises.

It's always a good thing to have peace within yourself, to see that you aren't a bad person.. no matter what the drive is. So I am thankful that you you have been able to let go and live a little lighter for it.

We are all on the planet for some strange reason.. and if you can go to bed at night and think "I did okay" then as far as I am concerned, your good. Pretty sure that any God would be happy with that.

May 20, 2007 9:33 AM  
Blogger Chuck said...

babs - i left another comment on here yesterday but once again it is not here. anyway i'm glad that you see things that way, i think a little morre scripture may help (can't hurt) so that is one of my plans, to read more. thanks once again lady. xoxo

xmichra - you will always be my favorite non believer, you may not believe in what i do but you sure have faith in something and that's always a good thing. i'm glad that you still drop by. seems like all of the old gang have faded away, maybe they aquired lives some where along the way. see ya around. xoxo

May 22, 2007 12:11 AM  
Blogger Framesby 86 said...

Hey, I'm still here!!! Sorry that I haven't been around in so long. I have been battling with a few personaly fights of my own and this was such a beautiful post. It has really shaken me and I applaud you for how far you have come. All IS possible with God in your life. Take care...XXX

May 22, 2007 5:09 AM  
Blogger Chuck said...

jo - pardon my manners, but could you be so kind as to refresh my memory as to who you are? however i am glad that you liked the post, i hope things are going better for you. take care of yourself and come back soon.

May 22, 2007 7:57 AM  
Blogger Chef said...

Hey I high lighted the text and could finally read it. Thanks for the pic bro, means a lot to me to be on your blog. As for God, well, I was raised in church the oldest son of a Baptist minister. I've seen the best and the worst of church people, and I'm here to tell you the devil goes to church every Sunday. Which is not to say we shouldn't.....it's too easy an excuse. As for needing church to get to heaven? Fuggedaboutit. going to church makes you a christian is the biggest lie the devil ever told. I really believe if you reach a point in your life that you have given yourself to God in such a way that you allow him to be Lord AND Master in your life, that he will lead and guide you to a church family where you will feel His presence, and hear His voice. When I am down, or feeling hopeless, I read Romans chapter 8, verses 38 and 39. Peace bro. You and yours are truly loved. Cook

May 22, 2007 12:30 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Chuck. I seem to drop by your blog when I need it most (makes me wonder if it's God at work ? :) You have a wonderful heart, and I've missed dropping by and hope to get by more often. When I settle down some from a long journey I've been on, I'm thinking ....

C for Chuck. You and Babs were two of my first blogging buddies, and when I went into the my shutdown mode (for reasons too complicated to explain but which I'm sure you'd appreciate) I always regretted not coming by more often to say hello to you. You were always a kind soul, and I see you still are.

See ya 'round, buddy. Good to see you again.

May 22, 2007 6:24 PM  
Blogger Xmichra said...

aw! Thanks Chuck!! I may not be a beleiver in god, but i have no disrespect for those who do. It's a big universe, and i could be wrong. Who knows. :)

And i swing by from time to time to check in on everyone. I do miss all of you... but life has gotten way to busy to sit in front of my computer, when i have the option not too. Plus, Kira is still really young, and I would like to think that i was here... playing with her and being involved while she still thinks her dad and I are heros. I will reserve my sit back approach for when she is 16 and hates me :( which i hear happens to every parent good or bad.

But on the occassion that i have "me" time i use it to see you guys. I miss you!

May 23, 2007 1:32 PM  
Blogger Chuck said...

chef - thanks for the tip on the ROMANS, i can never remember where anything is in the bible.

brotherray - (where did that name come from?) i'm glad that you still come around, and thanks for the e-mails too, i hope you are fighting the good fight and keeping the demons at bay. xoxo

xmichra - one day we just might find out that all paths are tied together some how, it may take a bit from here, a bit from there, and probably a lot of something we have never even imagined. as long as it's peaceful and has good food, music, and dogs i'll be just fine. xoxo

May 25, 2007 12:21 PM  
Blogger Framesby 86 said...

This is stalker Jo, better known to you as Buddess. I had to sign up for a google mail account and Buddess was taken, so I apologize for the confusion. I left something over on my blog http://buddess.wordpress.com for you that you might just enjoy!!!

May 29, 2007 7:15 AM  
Blogger Chuck said...

jo - aka buddess, i'm glad that you came back and explained, i was wondering where you've been, i'll be by directly to check out your site, take care and don't be such a stranger.

May 29, 2007 3:09 PM  

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